Kill her, Aimee. Kill her a lot.
If you don't, I'm coming out there to do the job myself.
Darn your sinister attraction!
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Cashmere - Aug 23, 2005 7:06:21 am PDT #8045 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.
Amy - Aug 23, 2005 7:07:22 am PDT #8046 of 10001
Because books.
Timelies, everyone.
Go power nap, Maria! That's what office doors are for.
(We left the invites open so people can each manage their own experience.)And if all else fails,this is why God invented credit cards.
The other difference is, it kind of sucks of some of the invitees feel like they can't afford to stay for the whole party. Plus, there are those who don't use/don't have credit cards. I'm with juliana. Kill her so dead.
Aims - Aug 23, 2005 7:08:14 am PDT #8047 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.
I want to go off on her so incredibly bad, I can taste it. But every time someone send her an email, she calls Bride and tells her.
juliana - Aug 23, 2005 7:08:20 am PDT #8048 of 10001
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…
Th MoH seems to have a bad case of cranio-rectal inversion. Those can get fatal.
brenda m - Aug 23, 2005 7:10:05 am PDT #8049 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there
There's no problem at all! People who can't throw money around can just not come! See? Works for everybody!
WTF is her problem?
Aims - Aug 23, 2005 7:10:07 am PDT #8050 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.
I have typed this response:
You're right, that *is* why God invented credit cards. I guess you can whip yours out for those who can't afford dinner.
Cashmere - Aug 23, 2005 7:11:03 am PDT #8051 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.
I want to go off on her so incredibly bad, I can taste it. But every time someone send her an email, she calls Bride and tells her.
At this point, Aimee, I'd mail the bride's gift directly to her, along with a note saying that MoH's assholitude is the reason I wouldn't be attending this farce of a shower.
Maria - Aug 23, 2005 7:12:03 am PDT #8052 of 10001
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift
every time someone send her an email, she calls Bride and tells her.
So cut out the middle-man. Call Bride yourself. She knows what kind of financial position you're in. If she chooses to be cruel and heartless, do the minimum required as a BM and move on to friends who love who you are, not your credit.
Aims - Aug 23, 2005 7:16:41 am PDT #8053 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.
I've sent this email:
I would hate for there to be fewer people to celebrate with Bethany simply because they could not afford what has been chosen. And knowing Bethany as I do, if someone says, "I'm not going to dinner, I can't afford it. I'll just hang in the room or go home." She's going to want to pay for that person. And she won't take no for an answer. And I don't think that's a position that she should be in at her shower.
At this point, Aimee, I'd mail the bride's gift directly to her, along with a note saying that MoH's assholitude is the reason I wouldn't be attending this farce of a shower.
I'm driving half the people to the actual thing.
I hate this whole thing.
Cashmere - Aug 23, 2005 7:19:13 am PDT #8054 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.
I'm driving half the people to the actual thing.
You don't have to. They have cars.
I hate this whole thing.
This. Right. Here. It ceased being fun for you a looooong time ago. I'm sure that as bad as it is in the planning stages, it will be worse when you get there. Honey, if I were you, I'd back out now.