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Steph L. - Aug 11, 2005 8:13:46 am PDT #5860 of 10001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Steph, when you had your back surgery, what did they do and what was your injury? If I may be so bold as to ask?

They shaved her bones!

He's not wrong.

My injury was that the bottom 2 discs of my vertebrae were herniated (a herniated disc is different from a "slipped" disc, or bulging disc, in that the herniated disc is more severe -- a bulging disc, as the name implies, bulges out beyond the boundaries of the vertebral bone; a herniated disc is where the wall of the disc ruptures and some of the squooshy material inside the disc -- think of it as a breast implant that sprung a leak -- leaks out towards the nerves and so forth).

Anyway. My discs had herniated so badly that they were compressing my sciatic nerve on the left side, which ended up causing so much pain that I couldn't sit and could barely walk. All the pain was down the back of my left leg, and not in my back.

I had a laminectomy and discectomy to fix me up. A laminectomy involves shaving/grinding off part of the vertebral bone -- NOT the vertebrae themselves; the "prong-y" things that stick off to the sides of the spine -- so that the doctor can get to the discs that are being problematic. Apparently he had to take off part of 3 of my laminae.

The discectomy, as the name implies, is where the doctor removes the disc material that squooshed out, and then they stuck something -- a needle, I assume -- into the 2 offending discs to teach them a lesson to remove a little more of the disc material, which is supposed to greatly reduce the chances of re-herniating.

They *did* leave me with some disc at both locations, though, which means I did NOT have to have a spinal fusion. Booyah.

My injury was, they tell me, pretty severe, and that's why I have a 6-inch scar -- they had to get the squooshed-out disc material from a lot of places. My co-worker, who had the same surgery about 5 years ago, has an itty-bitty teeny-tiny scar that I'm totally jealous of.

If I may be so bold as to ask?

Surely you've learned by now that, given any opening, I will happily natter on at length about my surgery.

Are you having back problems?


tommyrot - Aug 11, 2005 8:15:38 am PDT #5861 of 10001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

the "prong-y" things that stick off to the sides of the spine

What do those things do, anyway?


Calli - Aug 11, 2005 8:16:47 am PDT #5862 of 10001
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

(1) non-teaching job, in which I work closely with the new Principle and, hopefully, we get on well. This would give me a good overview of how to make the school work, and it would be valuable down the line if I'm going for positions of responsibility within the school...but I can't think how we can stretch it out for a whole year. Huh. (2) Move back to Britain and get Supply Work, leaving behind friends, social life, cat etc.

Is there anyway you could combine 1 and 2, where you find Supply Work in Cairo after the school building with the new Principal runs out of work things? You sounded so thrilled to be working in Egypt, it seems a shame to give that up.


Steph L. - Aug 11, 2005 8:17:11 am PDT #5863 of 10001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

the "prong-y" things that stick off to the sides of the spine

What do those things do, anyway?

They're like a marimba for your white blood cells.

Nah, I figure they're just extra protection for the old spinal cord.


Volans - Aug 11, 2005 8:19:51 am PDT #5864 of 10001
move out and draw fire

What do those things do, anyway?

Dunno, but since they were put there by an Intelligent Designer, must be something.


Connie Neil - Aug 11, 2005 8:25:53 am PDT #5865 of 10001
brillig

Just back from my doctor, the Jolly Fat Man Who Agrees That Weight Loss Is Good But Hard. I have a presecription for Lexapro, to try and cut my anxiety levels. Who's been on it, what should I expect, what are the odds of my murdering the adorable cherub and his free-spirited siblings next door?


Cass - Aug 11, 2005 8:28:43 am PDT #5866 of 10001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

It also includes alcohol , tea and chocolate
mmmmm...


juliana - Aug 11, 2005 8:29:32 am PDT #5867 of 10001
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

I have a presecription for Lexapro, to try and cut my anxiety levels. Who's been on it, what should I expect, what are the odds of my murdering the adorable cherub and his free-spirited siblings next door?

I went on it during the whole breaking up with Zach & moving out phase. When they finally kicked in, I felt a little mellower than I probably would have. I ended up going off of them for some reason I can't remember - probably just not wanting to see that particular shrink anymore and not wanting to find a new one.


brenda m - Aug 11, 2005 8:33:38 am PDT #5868 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I have a presecription for Lexapro, to try and cut my anxiety levels.

I'm on it right now, but I'm kind of iffy. I've had no significant side effects, which is good, but OTOH I've had a few episodes where I could feel myself just plunging into a depressive funk, which is new to me. (The onset coming so quickly, and being so aware of it happening, I mean; the depression itself has been there long-time.) And on it is better than off it, for sure, in the absence of some other AD. I'm thinking I need to change, but that doesn't mean it won't work better for you.


Glamcookie - Aug 11, 2005 8:34:41 am PDT #5869 of 10001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

Another user here. It did help ease anxiety but I find that my short-term memory is very wonky. Any other users find this?