Wesley: I stabbed you. I should apologize for that. But I'm honestly not sure how. I think it'll just be awkward. Gunn: Good call. Wesley: Okay.

'Time Bomb'


Spike's Bitches 25 to Life  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


JZ - Aug 07, 2005 4:26:59 pm PDT #5165 of 10001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Just back home myself (after a detour to Whole Foods).

Nora and Tom's house is OMG SO PRETTY!!1! Full of character and quirks and rich little details, and for having been there just over a month they've already done a crazy lot of unpacking and organizing and homeifying. And the longer they live there, the more completely unpacked and filled in and lived-in it is, the more amazing it's going to be. It's really just a terrific place.

And Nora and Tom were incredibly gracious, kind hosts (and Tom is a very quietly but very intensely doting DH). Nutty was her usual polished articulate quietly snarkalicious self, Emily was her usual leggy witty snarkalicious self (with bonus ringlets, courtesy of the humidity), vw brought groaningly rich desserts and looked relaxed and mellow and happy.

Victor was expansive and cheerful and rapidly got involved in an energetic discussion of proofing and copy style books with my brother Lukas's partner TJ. Lea was slightly sun-pinked but happy and voluble and with glorious short-cropped carroty orange hair, and was hard at work on a tiny complicated triangle of some complicated autumn-colored knitwork. DX was amused by everything and quite entertained by Caspar's serious, intent exploration of the backyard. flea and mr. flea were cool and charming and a really easeful, attuned-to-each-other couple to watch, and Caspar flitted back and forth between them, all bonded and eager and confident with them both.

Ellen was calm, quietly warm and snarky and interested in everyone and everything (planning to walk around Salem before catching the train, just so she could take it all in). Theo wore a cunning hat and was working on a gorgeous feather-light intricate cobweb of a black mohair scarf, and had tales of roommates, cats, homeowner woes, and Serenity viewings. Frankenbuddha brought excellent beer and tales of dodgy roommates and dodgier basement apartments and moving mishaps. And sj and TCG were, as noted above, smitten and attentive, and both just as beautiful as they look in the pictures sj has posted. And sj brought me a lovely little bag of Bitchly treats for no reason at all, and I'm still squeeing over them.

Also, despite Jen's blazing hotness, I did not run off with her, as she left a bit early for an evening of Shakespeare in the Park with a mysterious stranger. My heart is all broke.

Also, I now owe Hec a number of hugs from a variety of people. I take my duties very seriously, and I shall endeavor to deliver every last one to the very best of my ability.


erikaj - Aug 07, 2005 4:28:39 pm PDT #5166 of 10001
Always Anti-fascist!

I'm sure it will be your cross to bear.


Scrappy - Aug 07, 2005 4:36:53 pm PDT #5167 of 10001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Hooray for great Nora & Tom partyage!

And go Billytea with the killer combo of dating and echidnas!

I was felled with a kiler migraine this noon which is just now fading. One of those really bad ones. Yuck.


billytea - Aug 07, 2005 4:40:20 pm PDT #5168 of 10001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

And go Billytea with the killer combo of dating and echidnas!

No echidnas were harmed in the making of this Wally report. I, however, am ded from the cute.


DavidS - Aug 07, 2005 4:59:06 pm PDT #5169 of 10001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Just back home myself

::checks bedroom::

I was felled with a kiler migraine this noon which is just now fading. One of those really bad ones. Yuck.

That is no way to spend a birthday. I think I need to send you a birthday present.

billytea, I'm thoroughly impressed and enjoying your dating strategies which (to my mind) betray a veteran of many D&D campaigns, with a side of Toastmasters.


billytea - Aug 07, 2005 5:01:14 pm PDT #5170 of 10001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

billytea, I'm thoroughly impressed and enjoying your dating strategies which (to my mind) betray a veteran of many D&D campaigns, with a side of Toastmasters.

It's all true. You'll know I've gone overboard if I start announcing that "I've advanced Wally to 4th level, and maxed out my skill ranks in Bluff, Tumble and Use Rope."


billytea - Aug 07, 2005 5:53:21 pm PDT #5171 of 10001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

It's my 12th wedding anniversary today (my time, that is). I just sent off an email to Bec. I hope she has a good day.

Apparently the 12th anniversary is silk. Kind of sorry to miss out on pressies for that one.


Cass - Aug 07, 2005 6:15:41 pm PDT #5172 of 10001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Grrr, kittens do not belong on laptops. Their wee little cat feet eat posts.

After my nephew's birthday party yesterday afternoon, I drove up to Camarillo to spend the evening at my uncle and uncle-in-law's place with my mom who had driven in for the weekend. We had the most amazing dinner at Westside Cellars Café in Ventura, drank Cuvee le Beck and ate wonderful little nibbles all evening. So good. Then I had lunch at Roscoe's Chicken and Waffles with the lovely and wickedly witty Madrigal before heading home today. Such a lovely weekend.


Cass - Aug 07, 2005 6:17:07 pm PDT #5173 of 10001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

I hope you have a good day today too, billytea. It seems like this would be a strange and difficult day. My thoughts are with you.


billytea - Aug 07, 2005 6:24:46 pm PDT #5174 of 10001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

I hope you have a good day today too, billytea. It seems like this would be a strange and difficult day. My thoughts are with you.

It does, doesn't it? But I'm really fine. There's a touch of bittersweet nostalgia, some fond regrets, but no demons. In my email to Bec, I thanked her for the years we had together, let her know I'd learned more from her than anyone else in my adult life, and that she's a special woman who deserves to be happy. And meant every word.