A year and a half ago, I could have eviscerated him with my thoughts. Now I can barely hurt his feelings. Things used to be so much simpler.

Anya ,'Dirty Girls'


Spike's Bitches 25 to Life  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


vw bug - Aug 01, 2005 2:16:24 pm PDT #4186 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

Little tip...

If you're going to go look at an apartment, maybe you shouldn't *run* there...literally. You may be stinky, and it may really turn off the person showing the apartment.


Glamcookie - Aug 01, 2005 2:17:42 pm PDT #4187 of 10001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

EW


Lilty Cash - Aug 01, 2005 2:18:50 pm PDT #4188 of 10001
"You see? THAT's what they want. Love, and a bit with a dog."

Pokes head over mountain of boxes.

Thanks for all the ~ma, everyone. The cousin's SiL died last night, as soon as they took her off life support. Her parents did make it in time, after chartering a plane, although I guess her mom went into shock in the hospital and had to be given something before she could see her. I feel so bad for them.

Aww, Tep, I'm sorry for your scare, and glad everything is ok. You SO were not being whiny, especially under the circumstances.

In fact, wanna hear whiny? I have two carloads left to move and I don't think I can stand to do it. I am tired and there is nowhere to put anything and my throat is all hurty and I just want someone to make me yummy food!

Now that's whining. Off I go. Wears Whiner of the Year Tiara proudly.


vw bug - Aug 01, 2005 2:20:37 pm PDT #4189 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

GC, he also said Toto looks like a mutt. Not the way to win his way into my heart or good graces.


SailAweigh - Aug 01, 2005 2:21:04 pm PDT #4190 of 10001
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

{{Cass}} Hope the migraine is dying a not so slow, yet ignominious, death.

vw, I'ma just say "ewwww." Some people are a tad less than intelligent.

Edit: {{Lilty}} How sad for your cousin's family. I'm so sorry.


Glamcookie - Aug 01, 2005 2:24:11 pm PDT #4191 of 10001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

GC, he also said Toto looks like a mutt.

Well, at least he let you know right up front that he's a Nu-Uh-No-Way-Never kinda guy.

So sorry, Lilty. How horrible.


vw bug - Aug 01, 2005 2:34:54 pm PDT #4192 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

Lilty, I don't know how I missed your post. I'm so sorry for your cousin's family. What a terrible loss.

Also, good luck with your last couple of car loads. You can do it! I know you can.


billytea - Aug 01, 2005 2:50:06 pm PDT #4193 of 10001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

Lilty, I'm so sorry.

I have no defenses against my own brain, and I don't even know how to go about building them.

Steph, one thing which has helped me (and vw, I beleive) is cognitive behavioural therapy. Obviously, recommended by our respective therapists, so I don't know if you'd find it worthwhile, but it might be worth looking into. It's got a lot about dealing with the (not so much literal) voices in your head.


Deena - Aug 01, 2005 3:29:37 pm PDT #4194 of 10001
How are you me? You need to stop that. Only I can be me. ~Kara

Oh, I suck. I have been vibing so hard for Lilty's family and for Steph's peace, and then when I do get around to posting, I forget to say anything.

I'm sorry. Steph, you handled. I don't know where it says we must handle everything with grace, but, even if it were a rule, I'd say you carried it off. You vented, but you stuck it through, despite your own pain. I hope the wedding is wonderful and that the time with your dad is miles better than you expect it to be.

Lilty, I'm sorry about your family's loss, and the kitty giving and the tough moving and the too many things in too little space and the no yummy food.

It seems like it was a tough weekend. When I wasn't writing the stupid business plan, I was catching up here, but never got quite caught up enough to post any responses. I hope it gets better for everyone this week.


Anne W. - Aug 01, 2005 3:52:48 pm PDT #4195 of 10001
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.

{{{Lilty and family}}}