It is equally difficult when everyone around you is happily producing cake with banana cream filling and offering you a slice, and everyone looks at you funny when you say, "No thank you." "But it's cake!" "Um, I'm not hungry?" "But -- CAKE." "I'm... on a diet?" "But you had three slices of chocolate cake last weekend!" "Er, that's why I'm on a diet?" "But isn't that your fifth cookie?" "Banana's not my favorite." "But my banana cake is the BEST. You'll like it, I know!" "I JUST DON'T LIKE BANANA CREAM FILLING, OKAY. GOD."
Ha! Yeah.
I mean, I'll read Wincest cake and enjoy it on rare occasions. I will. But it has to be baked in such a specific way and with such specific additional ingredients that, well, it's easier for me to just say that nope, this is not my beautiful cake and sneak a few bites here and there.
I'm not sure how I react when I accidentally hit a pairing I Just Don't Get. It's been a while since I put myself in the position to hit one, discounting unwarned for Wincest, which makes the back button go click click click. Honestly, the last I Don't Get It pairing in one of my other fandoms was kinda canon (Angel/Cordy), so I may have been conditioned to grit my teeth and bear it until we got to the Wesley bits.