May the wage they offer be on the + side of what they advertise!

Hee! I actually can't take *much* more money than what they advertised, because I can't make too much money...otherwise I'll be kicked off Social Security. So, I'm kind of hoping they don't offer me much more, 'cause I don't want to have to deal with that. But, it would be nice for the ego :).

Of course I only did that at home.

Laura, nowadays you probably could hook up a web cam and make some serious bank with that.

Kristin, toothpaste on a soft cloth works nicely for a tarnished tiara. Or a paper towel because who the hell has a soft cloth?

Ooo, thanks, Trudy!

Laura, nowadays you probably could hook up a web cam and make some serious bank with that.

Disturbed that this is probably true.

Laura, I wishwishwish I had had a better experience. I'm going to try with the next one--only with a little more realistic expectations and a lot less guilt.

I actually can't take *much* more money than what they advertised

Well, then I hope they give you as much $$ as you can possibly make, and then take you out to lunch a lot!

Laura, I wishwishwish I had had a better experience. I'm going to try with the next one--only with a little more realistic expectations and a lot less guilt.

That's the spirit! I firmly believe in avoiding guilt WRT things like this. It inhibits let down, honest!

Also, stock up on those second skin burn pad things--they're great on cracked, bruised, and bloodied nipples.

Laura's idea for filling the bags is great, and that's so much more practical than getting milk all over the bed, the baby, and your body. Next time I nurse braless, I'll have to try it.

Batman has his own Library of Congress call number.

P96.B37

I just think that's cool.

edit: So does Superman.

P96.S94

I firmly believe in avoiding guilt WRT things like this.

There is plenty of opportunity for guilt over pre-school choices, discipline choices, and all the other child rearing choices we make. You just do the best you can, and if later you find a better plan change your mind without guilt.

I'm trying to stress less about the boys. I may not be world's best mom, but I'm not so rotten that they'll end up being serial killers. The big problem is having adequate time to spend with them. I'm hiring several more people now to try and reduce our work burden.

I'll have to try it.

Do Plei. It always bugged me that all that milk was going to waste, or I'd have to try and exert lots of pressure on the unused breast to stop the gushing. Filling the bags worked out.

Question for the hivemind:

I've accepted, reluctantly, that if we're ever going to get our debt paid down and generally become responsible adult homeowner types, one of three things needs to happen, preferably by the end of the year: 1) DH gets a new job that pays substantially better; 2) I at least double and preferably triple my monthly freelance income; or 3) I go back to work, either in some kind of part-time work-from-home deal (preferred, but hard to find), or to a regular job.

None of this is urgent, must-fix-now, because we're treading water pretty ably. It's just that our present income doesn't allow us to actually pay down the credit cards as soon as we need to. #1 would be nice, but it's beyond my control. I intend to do my best to make #2 a reality, but I'm increasingly accepting that #3 may need to happen, at least until we've paid the debt down. But since it's not urgent, DH and I agreed (and he was the one who pushed for this, I was all in a panic that we had to have more money NOW) that I should be selective, and only apply for jobs that I was fairly confident wouldn't be soulsucking. Because if I end up soul-diminished and miserable, then I wouldn't have anything left for my novels (continuing to work on my novels, we both agreed, is a non-negotiable), nor for him, Annabel, or my friends.

All that long-winded wind-up is to say that I might find a new job in August, or in December, or not at all if #1 or #2 works out. And I was wondering how that works for daycare, since my understanding is that any day care that's fit to have has a long waiting list. What do people do in those situations? Is it possible to get daycare on short notice if I don't have family in the area that could fill in? Should I just assume I'll be able to figure something out for the short-term--pay one of my sahm friends, go in on a nanny-share, etc.--and not let that affect how I manage my possible job search?