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Spike's Bitches 23: We've mastered the power of positive giving up.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Nora Deirdre - Apr 29, 2005 7:30:07 am PDT #6435 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

It is silly, I guess, but it hurts my feelings that he doesn't say girlfriend.

Well, he may be one of those people who think that the words "boyfriend" and "girlfriend" are sort of silly. As one of those people, I can say that I probably introduced Tom as my friend about 90% of the time for almost 2 years, until I was able to introduce him as my fiance.

You're not a bad girlfriend at all, and if it bothers you, maybe bring it up (when you are not currently annoyed about it) and tell him you know it's silly, but...

and {askye} God, what a fucking sucktastic run you've been having. Hang in there though. It makes me relieved that I don't have to drive; when I do, lately, I've been so mega stressed about it (as with most things). I know I'd get in an accident if I were driving regularly.

I'm so sorry things are continuing to be hard at work. You're in my thoughts!


sj - Apr 29, 2005 7:32:59 am PDT #6436 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Well, he may be one of those people who think that the words "boyfriend" and "girlfriend" are sort of silly. As one of those people, I can say that I probably introduced Tom as my friend about 90% of the time for almost 2 years, until I was able to introduce him as my fiancee.

I guess the words are silly, but I like them anyway. I would rather him just say "This is Sarah" than "This is my friend Sarah" if he is uncomfortable saying girlfriend. I don't know why. The latter just bothers me.

if it bothers you, maybe bring it up (when you are not currently annoyed about it) and tell him you know it's silly, but...

Too late.


Nora Deirdre - Apr 29, 2005 7:34:25 am PDT #6437 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Too late.

Heh. I am sure y'all will get through it! perhaps he needed a bit of an eyeopener?


ChiKat - Apr 29, 2005 7:43:05 am PDT #6438 of 10001
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

It is silly, I guess, but it hurts my feelings that he doesn't say girlfriend.

Not a bad girlfriend at all. It would hurt my feelings, too.

And, exactly what Nora said. All of it.


Nora Deirdre - Apr 29, 2005 7:49:14 am PDT #6439 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Hey, ChiKat, congrats on getting through the semester, you paper-writing FIEND!

I took a nice long lunch break which did wonders for my sanity, but not so much for my motivation. la la la...


JohnSweden - Apr 29, 2005 7:52:56 am PDT #6440 of 10001
I can't even.

Punctuation to askye, that is rough stuff to deal with. Hang in there.

In me news, I just had a weird experience. I feel like I had a logjam break in my head. I've felt low and depressed for ages and I was just having a good conversation about oldtime soccer with a friend/colleague and I went off to get coffee feeling really upbeat, enthusiastic and positive for no reason, like a load had lifted off my shoulders. No idea where this has come from, but I'm going to try to hold onto it.


P.M. Marc - Apr 29, 2005 7:55:13 am PDT #6441 of 10001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Much punctuation, Askye. Did I tell you I wore the socks you gave me while I was in labor? Well, the early part. After that, it was too warm in my body for socks. But I wore them and they made me smile.


Nora Deirdre - Apr 29, 2005 7:55:31 am PDT #6442 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

went off to get coffee feeling really upbeat, enthusiastic and positive for no reason, like a load had lifted off my shoulders. No idea where this has come from, but I'm going to try to hold onto it.

Awesome!! Good luck with that!


ChiKat - Apr 29, 2005 8:00:24 am PDT #6443 of 10001
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

Hey, ChiKat, congrats on getting through the semester, you paper-writing FIEND!

Thank you! I'm tellin' ya. 11 papers in 16 weeks is just too damn much.

No idea where this has come from, but I'm going to try to hold onto it.

Yay!!

My office is weird, but fun. We just hooked up an iPod to some speakers so we could jam out to Neil Diamond for awhile.


JohnSweden - Apr 29, 2005 8:11:19 am PDT #6444 of 10001
I can't even.

Thanks, Nora and ChiKat!

11 papers in 16 weeks is just too damn much.

Yikes, way way too much. Good for you for getting through that.

so we could jam out to Neil Diamond for awhile.

Yup, weird fun. I'm listening to Ella and Louis doing "I won't dance". Must be Friday afternoon or something.