Timelies--

Last night I really need some ~ma, but I couldn't get online to ask for any, but I think the Buffistas came through anyway. I was at Mom's and her internet connection has been spotty and before I could post anything I lost the connection.

Yesterday goes down as one of the worst days for me. I was coming off of Wednesday which wasn't so great, completely exhausted, and on the way home I rearended a woman, and she rearended the woman in front of her. There was stop and go traffic and I thought they were going and instead they were stopping.

I totally freaked out. Mostly because my insurance had lapsed and I knew it and I was going to take care of it and then that happened and I felt like the world's biggest loser and I was panicky.

I got two tickets -- one for careless driving and one for the no insurance thing. There's front end damage to my car, I have no idea exactly how bad it is--- I mean, I looked at it and it seems horrible, but my car is drivable and I just don't know. But I have insurance again and it's being direct withdrawled. I just have to let them take pictures of my car so they know about the existing damage and then I have to get it fixed. Plus contact the woman I rearended, who was really nasty to me yesterday -- which I can understand that she was stressed. But before the police officer was finished with us she wanted to know how I was going to pay for the damage and if I was going to give her money each month and if so how much. I tried to be calm, but I didn't know all that stuff.

I don't know what I'm going to do about the money situation or if this is going to impact me moving --- I've been so counting on the move and I think it's important to my mental health. I have to talk to Dad and I haven't done that yet. I called Mom and have only dealt with her.

Job-ma for vw ~~~~~~~~~~~

And...that's all I got. Except, I don't know, maybe dog-ma for Nora.

Oy, askye.

Don't put off the move, though, if you can avoid it at all. I agree that this is hugely important to your mental well-being. The money will work itself out somehow.

{{{askye}}} What brenda said.

Also, do you have an insurance agent, or do you buy direct from the company that issues the policy? If you have an agent, they might be able and willing to negotiate retroactive coverage for you, depending on how long the lapse was (and if it would be worth it for you, financially).

{{{askye}}} I'm so sorry. Much ~ma to you.

Ack, missed that post. {{{{askye}}}}

{{Askye}} If she has insurance, talk to her insurance company, not to her. They'll let you set up a plan and deal with this without talking to her, and will be professional and reasonable about it.

((((askye))))

{{{askye}}}

sj - if you're still around, can you hop on AIM?

Nicole, I am not at home. I'm at Mom's. I'll be home in about 45 minutes and I can hop on then. Is that ok?