I wanna hurt you, but I can't resist the sinister attraction of your cold and muscular body!

Buffybot ,'Dirty Girls'


Spike's Bitches 23: We've mastered the power of positive giving up.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


sj - Apr 23, 2005 10:09:29 am PDT #5347 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

sj, did we really scare him? Did you explain it was just our enthusiasm towards him because he loves you as much as we do?

Yes, a little. I explained to him that we were a little tipsy.

Anyone smart enough to appreciate the loveliness that is sj is going to be the recipient of much Bitch enthusiasm. That's just the way it is.

Awww. Thanks.


beth b - Apr 23, 2005 10:13:10 am PDT #5348 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

Stephanie I am so glad you found a community to celebrate with. It is amazing when people you don't know well are so amazing.

between that and Jen's date my moniter os all blurry. I have to go to work. and figure out what to where to the swing dance tonight.


Stephanie - Apr 23, 2005 10:15:08 am PDT #5349 of 10001
Trust my rage

Are most of the women married to men in the service?

Actually, no. We live in this beautiful but semi-pretentious gated community with 36 holes of golf and a country club. (I'm opposed to the idea of a gated community, but it was the best buy for our money in this area and the only house we really liked.) There is one large community made up of many subdivisions. There are lots of military families here overall, but just me and my neighbor, L, in our subdivision. Most of the couples here are retired or semi-retired - around 55 and up. I know of 4 houses (out of maybe 70) owned by couples in their 30s and 40s.

Because they are all older, I know they have more time to do stuff like plan baby showers. At the same time, I have felt a bit like an outsider since we moved here (because we are so much younger and don't golf) and I think one of the reasons I was so moved today was that it was apparent that I'm really not (an outsider).


sumi - Apr 23, 2005 10:16:00 am PDT #5350 of 10001
Art Crawl!!!

Stephanie -- that's really lovely!


ChiKat - Apr 23, 2005 10:17:46 am PDT #5351 of 10001
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

Jen schmoop, sj schmoop! And Stephanie! Happy day in Bitches. You all give me warm fuzzies.

Cindy, I banish your cold. I waving shiny, magical objects and speaking Latin in front of some books. Be gone!

My guy just left. I didn't see him at all last weekend because I holed up to do homework. All. Freakin'. Weekend. I have 2 papers to write this weekend (mostly done with one now), so he took off to let me do it. But now, I'm lonely and have to work.


Cass - Apr 23, 2005 10:20:13 am PDT #5352 of 10001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Jen = doomed.

sj = still doomed.

Stephanie, that just so very lovely!

Happy day in Bitches.
It really is.

Puppycat is one my very last nerve yet still cute enough to live.


sumi - Apr 23, 2005 10:26:13 am PDT #5353 of 10001
Art Crawl!!!

I believe that chicat is also doomed. . . or is she so far gone that it is past noticing?

Yay for all the schmoopy Bitches!


SailAweigh - Apr 23, 2005 10:28:03 am PDT #5354 of 10001
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

Stephanie, that is so wonderful! It gives me faith that community fellowship really hasn't fallen through the cracks. I live in a condo community that is very physically close (because they used to be apartments.) Been here 1-1/2 years and yet I don't know the names of any of my neighbors! I say hello to a number of them in the hall and parking lot, but still. No names, no get togethers, nada.


Topic!Cindy - Apr 23, 2005 10:39:30 am PDT #5355 of 10001
What is even happening?

ChiKat is doomed.

My cold is doomed, if ChiKat and her Latin have anything to say about it.

Stephanie, that's really just plain sweet, then. I would expect miltary wives to come to the rescue, because so many have been through it. Plain old neighbors throwing a shower for the new kid on the block is even more touching.

Umpteen in-laws and sprong due in T minus 21 minutes and counting. I guess I ought to put some shoes on.


Cass - Apr 23, 2005 10:50:47 am PDT #5356 of 10001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

I found an old floppy that wasn't labeled and wondered what was on it. Completely forgot that my computer doesn't have a bay for that. I am just going to assume it wasn't anything important. When did floppies become obsolete?