Deep breath, Nora. You'll work it out.
It seems to me that as you are on teh side of the transaction that is shelling out a whomping great pile of money, at least some of these necessary things should be scheduled to your convenience. But I'm not a homeowner, I don't expect to understand.
I'm sorry to hear that Sparky.
I'm sorry, Sparky. {{{Sparky and Sparky's DH}}}
Since I've known him, I've watched the DH deal with his grandmother & mother's long, losing battles with cancer, his father's suicide, his uncle's attempted suicide. His grandfather's health keeps us on edge. This cousin was in a car accident about 4 years ago and became a quadrapledgic. Enough already, universe, I'm convinced -- my husband is the strongest person emotionally that I know.
I think I'll put on my walking shoes and go take a walk.
I'm so sorry, Sparky. My best wishes to you both. Your poor husband.
Thanks, everyone. I didn't mean to kill the thread with my temper tantrum.
Oh, Sparky. I'm so sorry.