{{Calli & Calli's Mom & Calli's family}}
My thoughts are with you.
Wesley: We were fighting on opposite sides, but it was the same war. Fred: but you hated her…didn't you? Wesley: It's not always about holding hands.
'Shells'
Spike's Bitches 23: We've mastered the power of positive giving up.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Nora Deirdre - Apr 18, 2005 7:47:14 am PDT #4156 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
Lyra Jane - Apr 18, 2005 7:48:03 am PDT #4157 of 10001
Up with the sun
Calli, I'm so sorry. I hope it's easily treated.
Aimee, it sounds like yoour great-grandma is the kind of old woman I want to be someday.
Aims - Apr 18, 2005 7:51:14 am PDT #4158 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.
Aimee, it sounds like yoour great-grandma is the kind of old woman I want to be someday.
She was running full tilt until her heart went a little bit weak about 7 years ago. Maintained 2 full flower gardens, vegetable gardens. She crocheted, embroidered, and tatted. The tatted lace she made was so beautiful. She has macular degeneration and she's had to give up most of her handiwork over the past few years and that upsets her some, but mostly, she says she sits and thinks about her life and loves what she sees.
Fay - Apr 18, 2005 7:52:30 am PDT #4159 of 10001
"Fuck Western ideologically-motivated gender identification!" Sulu gasped, and came.
Ah, shit, Calli.
Wishing a whole host of parentheses your way.
juliana - Apr 18, 2005 7:55:29 am PDT #4160 of 10001
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…
{{{{{vw}}}}}
{{{{{Calli}}}}}
beathen - Apr 18, 2005 7:56:25 am PDT #4161 of 10001
Sure I went over to the Dark Side, but just to pick up a few things.
{{{Calli}}}
Topic!Cindy - Apr 18, 2005 8:03:45 am PDT #4162 of 10001
What is even happening?
Calli, I don't know a lot about it, yet. I'm waiting for information from my s-i-l who was diagnosed recently. What I can tell you is somewhat hopeful. My s-i-l is not only stage III B, but had breast cancer within the last two years of her ovarian diagnosis, and had an earlier ovarian tumor. And yet, she said her chance for complete remission (she's already had complete hysterectomy) is 85%.
I haven't looked up more about it yet, because there's a chance there's a genetic component to this, which might mean there are implications for my daughter, Julia. I'm waiting to hear from s-i-l, about the results she gets from tests (re the genetic angle), before I look up more, because I don't want to make myself crazy.
Here's to good, swift treatment for your mom, and a complete recovery, health, and strength, and some peace for you.
You might want to think about waiting until you know your mother's staging, etc., before you go looking.
Ginger - Apr 18, 2005 8:20:20 am PDT #4163 of 10001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda
Happy Birthday, Beth!
Calli, I'll be thinking about your mother. It's pretty obvious, but the American Cancer Society's site [link] is a great resource and they offer local services.
Fred Pete - Apr 18, 2005 8:37:08 am PDT #4164 of 10001
Ann, that's a ferret.
((((Calli, Mother, and family))))
If you have questions, I spent several years helping care for Hubs' mother when she was fighting cancer.
Calli - Apr 18, 2005 8:46:02 am PDT #4165 of 10001
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs
Thank you, all. I may have questions for folks once we get a staging. Right now I'm in a "sit in the office crying, while abusing the office internet connection to look up depressing stats and send smoke signals out to my local support folks" situation.
Thank Gaia I have an office with a door that I can shut. Although I really don't care if anyone here sees me looking like red-eyed crap, I don't want to explain why sixteen dozen times.
I chose an excellent day to say "screw it" to mascara though. Small comforts, folks, small comforts.