Lord give me strength to not reach through email and kill my co-worker in Philly. I'm trying really hard to get a long with her.

vw, what everyone else said. Avoiding a situation that could send you into a spin is a good thing to do. Don't make any decisions about the iPod thing until you've had a chance to look at today from the other end.

-t, I love your tag. I almost considered pulling that to use myself.

((((vw)))) Joining in with everyone else. It's important in life to know what you can and can't handle. And if your physical and mental health can't handle class today, don't force yourself.

In high school, I was asked to leave a class because it hit my mental trigger.

(FTR -- Latin, senior year. The day after my grandmother died, we were translating a very lengthy passage on Hercules' journey through the underworld.)

Alcoholic cats are comedy gold.

Maybe you should get a voodoo doll, Aimee.

Aimee, I still get homesick for Philly. I could go there, kill her for you, pick up a cheesesteak, and finally meet my friends' new babies. Want me to?

Happy Birthday Owen!

{{{vw}}} FWIW, I think if you can physically handle it, you should go to class. Even if you aren't prepared, you will learn/better understand that material by being there and that's the purpose of going to class.

Also, please don't feel like a failure. You may not be paerfect, or have perfect attendence but that done not equal failure.

eta: and just to prove to self that i'm getting over my own perfectionist issues, i'm leaving my typos. so there.

Happy Birthday, Owen!

{{{vw}}} I'm with Steph... you are NOT a failure!

But I don't have the work done and...and...I don't know what to do.

Not having the work done may put you in an awkward position in the class for that day but is totally worth it if it means you don't feel like a total failure for the day. It probably doesn't mean you won't be able to participate in class discussion even if it's just by listening. And you'll be able to hear the professor's lecture (if it's that kind of class). I think it's a mistake if you are using not having the work done as an excuse for not going to class at all. I feel like that would just compound the problem.

(I feel like that sounds lecture-y and I don't mean it to. I just want to reassure you that not having the work done is not a huge deal and shouldn't get in the way of you getting something out of a class anyway.)

-t, I love your tag. I almost considered pulling that to use myself.

BWAH! (points upward) Simultaneous tagging!

and just to prove to self that i'm getting over my own perfectionist issues, i'm leaving my typos. so there.

I was just going to ask you to please please not fix them, they really add to your message.

(eta: Heh, I have the more obnoxious asscaps)