The next time you decide to stab me in the back... have the guts to do it to my face.

Mal ,'Ariel'


Spike's Bitches 23: We've mastered the power of positive giving up.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


DavidS - Mar 29, 2005 4:32:47 pm PST #185 of 10001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Is TiVO the way to go?

I love mine. We've got it hooked up through our DSL instead of the landline though. So, if you're already got DSL for your computers I think you're set. I'm sure they've got a workaround for those folks who've switched to all-cell all the time.

However, because Alfredo and I are INCREDIBLE geeks, we forget to watch shows we want to see constantly.

This will never happen again when you get the TiVo. It makes the TV schedule your bitch. OTOH, you become Tivo's adoring fanboy. Kind of a tradeoff.


Cashmere - Mar 29, 2005 4:34:36 pm PST #186 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.

StuntHusband, does your cable operator offer DVR's in their services? Although I admire Tivo (it's intuitive!) but I am currently using Tifaux (someone here coined this term, I think) from Time Warner and it's really a good compromise.

We get digital cable, and we can record shows, and program recording options that will record all new episodes, all episodes, etc. with the touch of a button.

Sure, it doesn't search out and find things I might like but I decided against the initial bigger investment of buying a Tivo and subscribing. Mine's all done with rental and no long term committment.

t delusional I can quit any time I want to t /delusional


Atropa - Mar 29, 2005 4:35:21 pm PST #187 of 10001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

So: suggestions? Is TiVO the way to go?

Why did I think you & Alfredo already *owned* a TiVO?


StuntHusband - Mar 29, 2005 4:37:18 pm PST #188 of 10001
Electromagnetic candy! - Stark

(Er, and I meant to post this in the Tech room, but I'm still recovering from a small cold that did 2 things: gave me a gravelly voice, and made me VERY SPACY IN DA BRAIN.)

Anyway: we have cable, no DSL - DSL implies phone line somewhere. And yeah, perusing the TiVO website a bit more has info for Guided Setup for Folk Without Phones (i.e. walk to someone's house who has a phone.)

Once Setup is done, it wuuuuuvs broadband. And our broadband is tres magnifique. Of course: He works for Microsoft, I work for Nintendo, we both play online games constantly. Without strong broadband, we'd both snap ("ka-PING!") and blood would flow in the streets like today's rain.

Yep. Too much caffiene before work.


StuntHusband - Mar 29, 2005 4:38:45 pm PST #189 of 10001
Electromagnetic candy! - Stark

We're on Comcast - not digital, not enough TV-watching to warrant it, and our tastes are very narrow - and I'll have to poke about a bit to discover an answer to that.

Jilli, I know why you thought so: it'd MAKE SENSE if we did. :)


Laura - Mar 29, 2005 4:49:04 pm PST #190 of 10001
Our wings are not tired.

Are parents still being told to be worried about cuddling their children too much, about making too much of a fuss if the kidlet is dinged or scared etc.? I've heard arguments saying that "coddling" the child will make it harder for them to go out and experience the world, but I have a hard time imagining a self-respecting ten-year-old afraid to leave his mother's side.

I often heard from "helpful elders" that I coddled my boys by letting them sleep with me, picked them up when they cried, etc. I am a big fan of tranquility and held them until they fell asleep every day. Any time they wanted to be snuggled I was there. They never cried for long, because I really hate to hear a kid cry. The boys are 10 and 13 now. They are the most independent kids I know. Heaven forbid I suggest they need help fixing breakfast. They no longer want to sleep with me and (thankfully since they are so big) almost never want to sit in my lap. Neither one of them ever had a temper tantrum in the grocery store. I figure it was because they didn't need to get my attention. Yep, I spoiled them. Yet I don't think anyone would think of them as spoiled kids.


Karl - Mar 29, 2005 5:05:53 pm PST #191 of 10001
I adore all you motherfuckers so much -- PMM.

Aw. Now I want Laura to spoil me.


Laura - Mar 29, 2005 5:10:43 pm PST #192 of 10001
Our wings are not tired.

It would be my pleasure Karl! Particularly since you are a guy who clearly knows how to spoil.


Beverly - Mar 29, 2005 5:13:21 pm PST #193 of 10001
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

There are different ways of "spoiling" kids. If a child has its needs met within a reasonable time of making them known, either by complaining or crying, that child will have reasonable trust and expectation of fairness in the world, and will operate from a feeling of security.

A child who is ignored, let cry, petted and cooed over at the caretaker's convenience rather than the physical or emotional need of the child, that child will be less ready to believe that its needs are going to be met. It will operate from a position of suspicion, uncertainty and fear.

I think, anyway.


Jessica - Mar 29, 2005 6:33:29 pm PST #194 of 10001
If I want to become a cloud of bats, does each bat need a separate vaccination?

Is TiVO the way to go?

Is the sky blue? Is water wet?

Once Setup is done, it wuuuuuvs broadband.

This is true. I wish they'd upgrade it so it didn't need that one phone call, though.