{{Cashmere}} I just caught up enough in the last thread to read about Michael. I'm so sorry. I'm sorry the funeral included justifications. They were probably comforting to some of the mourners, as bad as they were for you.
And that sucks that your husband will miss Owen's 1st birthday. It's just wrong. His employers should understand that, dammit.
Though sharing a crankyshirt with juliana sounds pretty fun.