I like that, Rio.

I don't like the "spread the word via friends and family" thing for no gifts, because it's pretty inevitable that there'll be someone who doesn't find out.

I don't like the "spread the word via friends and family" thing for no gifts, because it's pretty inevitable that there'll be someone who doesn't find out.

I agree.

If I ever get married, it going to be all about the gifts!

I receive one with a "no gifts" request, and I thought it was just as spiffy as any other I'd gotten. It was years ago, and I can't remember how they did it, but I thought it was just fine.

Saget and I don't want wedding presents. We're not registering anywhere; we're not getting "favors" or whatever for our guests; we don't want people to feel obligated to buy us anything. Do we say "no gifts" on the invite in some funny/nice way, or do we wait for people to ask where we're registered? We're arguing about this right now. I say you don't tell people what they are and are not allowed to do; Saget says if he were invited to such a wedding he'd want to know that gifts were not expected.

I remember talking about this with you in Chicago. Still an issue, huh? I'll just reiterate then: it makes NOBODY HAPPY to say NO PRESENTS. Because then people are unsure how to fulfill their social obligations. It creates a weird etiquette zone. Honestly, it'll make the old people grumpy. However, I know Saget is very anti-receiving, so I would set up some little goat charity to Guatemala as an outlet.

An In Lieu of List sounds like a good plan. People will want to do something and with suggestions they can indicate what they have done in a card for you.

I'm a litttle crazed with lack of sleep. DH was miserable with pain yesterday and finally we went to see a doc this morning and he has a hernia. He has a fist full of drugs to get the inflamation down and ease his pain, but surgery will happen at some point.

Alfredo is now, officially (letter from the State Department/Department of Homeland Security) a Resident. He's waffling on the whole citizenship thingy, as he already has two (Venezuela and Spain), but the idea of collectible trading-card citizenships is also appealing.

But yay! 3+ years later, the process is complete. NOW we can start traveling.

Thank you for the birthday wishes!!!

My best gurlfriends pitched in and bought me the loveseat I've been coveting forever. Now I have to do some measuring and furniture rearranging. How to maximize this space? Hm.

Excellent news, StuntHusband.

My best gurlfriends pitched in and bought me the loveseat I've been coveting forever.

That's a very covetable loveseat. In fact, I covet it.

What an awesome present, Allyson!

Feel better soon vibes to Brendon.

And last but not least--No. 10 in today's LA Times Bestselling Books (paperback) is "Lost in the Grooves." Go Hec!

Wow...we knew you when, Hecubus.