Everybody plays each other. That's all anybody ever does. We play parts.

Saffron ,'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


Buffy and Angel 1: BUFFYNANGLE4EVA!!!!!1!

Is it better the second time around? Or the third? Or tenth? This is the place to come when you have a burning desire to talk about an old episode that was just re-run.


JenP - Mar 10, 2026 11:09:51 am PDT #10673 of 10707

Truly one of the HSQs of all time.

The best.


DavidS - Mar 10, 2026 11:33:59 am PDT #10674 of 10707
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

All of social media wants me to know that our little show is 29 today.

But that would mean that those of us who were teenagers when the show aired are now in their 40s!

I'd better alert Rebecca Lizard and SA and Holli.


-t - Mar 10, 2026 11:34:10 am PDT #10675 of 10707
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Yeah, I'm getting all those notices, too, including my own "memory" from 9 years ago marveling at it being 20 years...


Karl - Mar 10, 2026 7:07:19 pm PDT #10676 of 10707
I adore all you motherfuckers so much -- PMM.

I'd better alert Rebecca Lizard and SA and Holli.

I heard from SA (indirectly) last year, and I used to be subscribed to Holli's LJ/DW/tumblr/something, but I have not had word from the Lizard since she last posted here. Is she doing ok, as far as you know?


DavidS - Mar 10, 2026 7:09:57 pm PDT #10677 of 10707
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

but I have not had word from the Lizard since she last posted here. Is she doing ok, as far as you know?

Yeah, she's active on Facebook. So she's got a wife and kid and still busy doing trapeze work, though she had to work through a serious shoulder injury.

I was in regular contact with SA but she's gone off the grid completely. She'd had a difficult situation after her father died where she got really depressed, stopping paying rent during Covid, didn't work, was hoarding and got evicted. But she had a friend who let her stay in their basement bedroom, and she was applying for disability.


Steph L. - Mar 10, 2026 7:21:40 pm PDT #10678 of 10707
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I was in regular contact with SA but she's gone off the grid completely. She'd had a difficult situation after her father died where she got really depressed, stopping paying rent during Covid, didn't work, was hoarding and got evicted. But she had a friend who let her stay in their basement bedroom, and she was applying for disability.

Oh, man. I miss SA, and hope things are better for her.

I see Holli on Tumblr, but I guess I don't follow Lizard on FB. Good for her on the wife-and-kid front!


Karl - Mar 10, 2026 11:15:41 pm PDT #10679 of 10707
I adore all you motherfuckers so much -- PMM.

Last I heard from SA (roughly a year ago) they were using 'they/them' and at least occasionally reading Tarot in Portland. I can certainly ping the friend we have in common and ask if there's been a more recent update.


-t - Mar 11, 2026 6:48:39 am PDT #10680 of 10707
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I would appreciate that, Karl!


Laura - Mar 11, 2026 8:45:40 am PDT #10681 of 10707
Our wings are not tired.

Yes, Karl. Would appreciate any update.


Karl - Mar 11, 2026 3:50:28 pm PDT #10682 of 10707
I adore all you motherfuckers so much -- PMM.

My friend has heard from SA in the last month or so, and they are moving into a new space with a friend. My friend will check to see if there's anything else that SA wants to share, but apparently there is no immediate crisis. I have suggested that if SA were moved to post to the board, they would likely find a lot of support here.