And now my boy's in love. All hearts and flowers. But, doesn't it freak you out that she used to change your diapers? I mean, when you think about it, the first woman you boned is the closest thing you've ever had to a mother. Doing your mom and trying to kill your dad. Hm. There should be a play.

Angelus ,'Damage'


The Great Write Way, Chapter Two: Twice upon a time...  

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Scrappy - Jul 19, 2005 9:22:06 am PDT #3250 of 10001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Also, being asked for quotes is inherently flattering, as it implies your thoughts are important. That is a GOOD reason to be called.


Susan W. - Jul 19, 2005 9:28:02 am PDT #3251 of 10001
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

I know. And I should be fine as long as I write out my introduction first. I'd say I don't know why I'm this way, but actually I do--I'm not scared of email or letters because I can rewrite until I'm satisfied before sending them out, and I'm not afraid of face-to-face interaction because I can pick up on nonverbal cues, but the phone offers neither advantage.


erikaj - Jul 19, 2005 9:36:25 am PDT #3252 of 10001
Always Anti-fascist!

I made phone calls on the campaign, ok? In the course of that effort, I: -asked to talk to three dead guys
-got mistaken for one drunken ex
-got cursed soundly for daring to call a NeoCon house...maybe five times
None of this will happen to you, I swear. It'll be okay. I am now almost free of the Phone Anxiety, and I only say almost because I still don't want to call CG's house and get his gf, lest I spend the next month thinking how much better she sounds than I. Or vice versa. Other than that, I believe I could call about most things.


deborah grabien - Jul 19, 2005 9:36:50 am PDT #3253 of 10001
It really doesn't matter. It's just an opinion. Don't worry about it. Not worth the hassle.

Susan, what's the piece about?

And yes, totally do it - a win-win, there.


Susan W. - Jul 19, 2005 9:46:49 am PDT #3254 of 10001
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

Interlibrary loan as a research tool for writers--I just want to call the Seattle library staff and ask them some questions about what's the most unusual request they've gotten, if they have tips for patrons, etc., and then to call the Farmington, NM library because a disproportionate number of the books I request come from there, and I want to find out why they have such a good military history collection.


erikaj - Jul 19, 2005 10:05:05 am PDT #3255 of 10001
Always Anti-fascist!

That'll be good.


Ginger - Jul 19, 2005 10:06:59 am PDT #3256 of 10001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

I don't have any trouble calling people for an article. People like to be interviewed. No one else in their life will ever listen to them the way you will. I basically have two personalities: Ginger the Intrepid Reporter, who can call anyone, and Everyday Ginger, who hates to talk to strangers.


erikaj - Jul 19, 2005 10:10:56 am PDT #3257 of 10001
Always Anti-fascist!

I like that.


Beverly - Jul 19, 2005 10:18:34 am PDT #3258 of 10001
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

I hate cold calls. But this sounds like interesting research, so there's that. Also, erika, you're my hero--that sounds like a nightmare day for me.

Can you tell I once worked as an LDO, back in the misty reaches of time when there were such things? Every work day was a performance. We had a script, but we also got audited by supervisors, so mechanically following the script was as bad as not following it at all, in the push (at that time) for "customer satisfaction". Didn't help with the long-term cold-call aversion, though.


Amy - Jul 19, 2005 10:39:23 am PDT #3259 of 10001
Because books.

I had to call slaughterhouses/abbatoirs once for research and basically convince people to tell me how cows are slaughtered. After that, I never had phone fear again.

Very cool on the article, too -- a Writer's Digest credit would be lovely to have.

What is an LDO, Bev?