it just made me laugh when I read it.

My friend J just called. She is moving out of her house today, and I'm going to go help pack and be supportive and stuff. She's probably going to pick me up in an hour or so (so I should probably get in the shower!). Then I get to go to group and tell them I'm not continuing, due to school, and say goodbye to everyone.

This is going to be a stressful day. Not my idea of the perfect Bitches Day when I developed it earlier this morning. What was I thinking?

Not my idea of the perfect Bitches Day when I developed it earlier this morning. What was I thinking?

Well, if there's any day you need the power of Bitches Day behind you, it's a day like this, right?

Perhaps by the end of the day, vw, you can have pie and glitter. I guess not even Bitches Day is perfect. You're being a good friend to J.

STrength to you on this difficult day, vw. And pie and glitter.

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this morning I woke up with GRONK. DH tried to talk me into smileing - as if I even understood the word. ( he was trying to make me laugh) However, part of me regisared that the garbage men hadn't come yet. an dI remembered that the fridge needed to be cleaned out. So I got up and dumped out the stuff and got it to the garbage can just as the truck arrived. I can't decide if this is good, or just really, really, sick. Maybe I will know after caffine.

sending you strenght , vw

I'm so glad I can be there for J. So many people have been there for me...I feel like I'm giving back a little. I'm glad I'm in the place to be able to do this, though. It feels good, even while it's stressful.

The only venting that bugs me is when one Buffista spouse bitches about another.

Yes, this, for the same reason -- it's just TMI.

Also, this doesn't happen much on here, but on TT I got really jittery when people posted similar complaints about their spouses every week and didn't seem to want advice. Online friends can only help so much -- after a certain point, you should either shut up or go to couple's therapy.

As for me, I try not to say anything online that I would hate to have read out to the people involved. Not that I haven't managed to embarass myself, my husband and my employers even with that in mind. (What could be really embarassing is that, when I was on Usenet, I used my real name and was 18 and did not have many filters. I'm just hoping nothing too bad comes up when I become a bestselling novelist, or whatever.)

This is going to be a stressful day. Not my idea of the perfect Bitches Day when I developed it earlier this morning

Yeah, it sounds harsh. Hope it's easier to live than to think about, if that makes sense.

It feels good, even while it's stressful.

I'm glad to hear that. It's a good thing you're doing, and you should feel good about it.