Zoe: Don't think it's a good spot, sir. She still has the advantage over us. Mal: Everyone always does. That's what makes us special.

'Serenity'


Spike's Bitches 22: You've got Angel breath  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


vw bug - Feb 27, 2005 4:14:08 am PST #3481 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

I blame my baby-duck imprinting nature.

Bwah! We were just talking about this in my psych class on Friday. How funny that you would use it. Worlds collide...


Kate P. - Feb 27, 2005 4:14:21 am PST #3482 of 10001
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

Hi. I just got back from my date.


Pix - Feb 27, 2005 4:22:31 am PST #3483 of 10001
The status is NOT quo.

Date, date? Tell more! She says as she runs out the door, late as usual.


vw bug - Feb 27, 2005 4:23:19 am PST #3484 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

Hi. I just got back from my date.

Wow! A 23-hour date! That must have gone very well. Details?


vw bug - Feb 27, 2005 4:25:51 am PST #3485 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

Poptarts:

Mmmmm...poptarts! I hope my groceries get her soon. I want some.

Deena, do you have a minute to jump on AIM?


Stephanie - Feb 27, 2005 4:32:04 am PST #3486 of 10001
Trust my rage

Hi. I just got back from my date.

The pancake date? Tell us more!


Kate P. - Feb 27, 2005 4:35:11 am PST #3487 of 10001
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

Weeeelllll... there were pancakes, and there was a trip to MassMoCA, and then there was dinner, and then there was an entirely unplanned, um, sleepover. As it were.

Did I mention this was only our third date? I'm kind of unsure how I feel about it all. I like him a lot, and I'm glad I stayed over, but at the same time, I feel like I should feel like it's moving too fast. And I don't know if I do.


vw bug - Feb 27, 2005 4:43:40 am PST #3488 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

Ooooo...sounds very nice, Kate.

Also, I would say, stay in touch with those feelings of wondering if it's moving to fast. I'd say as long as you're acknowledging them, I'd say you're probably ok. It's when you start ignoring them that you run into problems.


beth b - Feb 27, 2005 5:16:09 am PST #3489 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

Sometimes , things go fast. As long as you are glad - that's good. Honestly, I think it is hard to tell in the beginning if the pace is right. some relationships move fast, some slow.I've known both kinds to be successful.


Lee - Feb 27, 2005 5:30:42 am PST #3490 of 10001
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

I agree with vw and beth, Kate. I don't think the third date is moving too fast, as long as you are glad things happen the way they did, but it's much more important how you feel, so it's good you are aware it might be an issue for you. At the same time, try not to worry too much about how you think things should be, and just enjoy/focus on how they are.