Riley: Maybe I should just let you rest. Buffy: You sure? I bet if you just lay down with me- Riley: Nothing you are about to say will lead to rest.

'Lessons'


Spike's Bitches 22: You've got Angel breath  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Polter-Cow - Feb 17, 2005 8:05:48 pm PST #1828 of 10001
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

As far as I can tell it's just fancy aspirin.

It's aspirin that won't upset your stomach but will upset your cardiovascular system.


beth b - Feb 17, 2005 8:39:33 pm PST #1829 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

DH has a hard time with both ibuprophin and asprin due to .... major , just-built-that-way , acid reflux. he was taking bextra - and it really didn't make him sick. and helped pain. If he take a pain killer, he needs to eat; and some days eating really needs to be watched . and there are days when it is a choice between more stomach pain or pain in stomach and injury. Not fun days.


vw bug - Feb 18, 2005 2:00:34 am PST #1830 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

Morning!

I love Cashmere's hair!

That's all I really remember...I'm still not quite awake. Need coffee.


Topic!Cindy - Feb 18, 2005 2:29:24 am PST #1831 of 10001
What is even happening?

I love Cashmere's hair!

I know, vw. I'm so jealous. She's so gorgeous anyhow, that it doesn't really seem fair that she pulls of funky so well. Where's AmyLiz? I need another old square to sit with.

Well, since I've ragged on the Catholic Church and ranted at the Christian Right, it's only fair for me to note Some people live their faith (Liberation Theology Nun killed defending the poor in Brazil).

You're very sweet.

That was some good conversation from JZ and Maria. Jen, I'm glad you asked the question, because it's something I wonder about, too. I started a long response, but think it will work better in LiveJournal than here. I'll link it, if/when I ever finish.

Gronklies, everyone.

brenda, any more news on your dad?

Anne, how's everything coming with readying your house for the market?


vw bug - Feb 18, 2005 2:43:34 am PST #1832 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

I need another old square to sit with.

I'm pretty squarish. You can sit with me. I like sitting with you.

And, yes, that was a good conversation. I learned some things I hadn't known.

Somewhat related...my cousin's family is part Catholic/part Protestant. My cousin is protestant, and she married a Catholic. They are raising the kids in both environments. They are all involved in both churches, and they're going to let the kids choose when they get older. I think it's a very interesting way to deal with the situation. They're wedding was most interesting. It was part mass, part service. What was even more interesting to me was that they got the Priest to agree to it.


Topic!Cindy - Feb 18, 2005 3:44:08 am PST #1833 of 10001
What is even happening?

Somewhat related...my cousin's family is part Catholic/part Protestant. My cousin is protestant, and she married a Catholic. They are raising the kids in both environments. They are all involved in both churches, and they're going to let the kids choose when they get older. I think it's a very interesting way to deal with the situation. They're wedding was most interesting. It was part mass, part service. What was even more interesting to me was that they got the Priest to agree to it.
This is me, and my family--well, not raising the kids in both churches part, but the family identifications. My parents (and their parents) are/were all Protestant. I don't think either side of the family has the nature to be Roman Catholic. We have authority...shall we say issues. But of my dad and his three brothers, two married Catholics, and converted. I don't think the conversions were too heartfelt, particularly in the case of dad's twin. I only have one cousin on dad's side (daughter of the oldest son), and she was raised Catholic. My impression is that my uncles converted to satisfy the parents of their wives, as anything else. In both cases, neither couple ended up being regulars at church, but they weren't regulars in their Protestant churches either, before their conversions.

In my mother's family, four of the six married Catholics, but only one converted. The children in all four families were raised Catholic, although in the case of my aunt's children, they have some big issues with the church, because for about four decades, their parents' marriage wasn't recognized.

Scott is Catholic. Well, Scott was Catholic. We've been attending a Protestant church for almost two years, and joined a year ago. Our church, however, does not rebaptize, and there's no sort of renouncing of your old church required, in order to join, although if you were an active member, they do strongly suggest you notify your old church. At any rate, I've been calling Scott Catholic, when the topic has come up, because when we were first thinking about entering into membership, he was fairly clear about not converting. However, the last couple of times the subject has come up, he has either identified as Protestant, or corrected me if I've called him Catholic, so it seems he's converted himself, somewhere along the way. He was a lapsed Catholic to begin with, though. I'd suggested we have an ecumenical wedding ceremony like your cousins did vw, but he wasn't interested in doing the legwork.

JZ, Jen, Maria, I've been writing up my response to the earlier conversation, and both quoted and paraphrased some of your questions and answers. I hope that's okay. As it stands now, you are simply anonymous friends, so it seemed to me to be okay to include the gist of your conversation here as the foundation for what I wanted to say. I hope none of this is a problem. If you'd prefer to be cited (I know Maria has an LJ; I don't think JZ does; I don't know about Jen), by name, please let me know. I am not yet finished. Once I do finish, I'll link here. If I've misrepresented your views, or if you have an issue with how I refer to them, please let me know. I don't think you'll have a problem with what I'm going to say, but just in case...


Ginger - Feb 18, 2005 4:05:26 am PST #1834 of 10001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

I need another old square to sit with.

It's pretty comfy over here in the old square corner. Cashmere's hair looks great on her, though. On me, I fear it would look like mutton dressed as lamb.

Let's hope I accomplish something today, before I break the world's record for useless weeks.


Amy - Feb 18, 2005 4:05:49 am PST #1835 of 10001
Because books.

Where's AmyLiz? I need another old square to sit with.

I'm sitting here with my square mug of tea, pretending my hair is another color.

I was raised Presbyterian, and Stephen is Catholic -- I don't know about the "lapsed", because although he hasn't been to a Catholic church in years aside from a funeral or a wedding, he still doesn't want to eat meat on Fridays during Lent and most of his personal theology (such as it is) is Catholic.


Hil R. - Feb 18, 2005 4:12:21 am PST #1836 of 10001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

One branch of my family, all the people in my generation who've married have married Catholics. Some of them are raising the kids Catholic, others are raising them Jewish, and some are celebrating the holidays of both religions with the grandparents but not really bring the kids to church or synogogue or Hebrew school or CCD. I'm not sure what they did for their weddings, though -- I only went to one, and it was a pretty typical Jewish wedding, except for the bagpipe player outside.

Crap. I just noticed the time. I've got 8 minutes before I have to leave, and I'm still in my pajamas.


Burrell - Feb 18, 2005 4:17:39 am PST #1837 of 10001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Hil, there seems to be a good fit between Catholics and Jews. At least that's how it always seemed to me. But then again, my mom was Catholic, my dad was Jewish.