River ,'Ariel'
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
and here is what I was going to post in the last thread
I don't think I needed a number of partners to discover or learn about sex - however I would have 32/33 if I had waited until I was married. I think sex would have been too important if I waited that long
snerk At this rate we will be at 23 by end of week.
Nothing new to add until I skim the last few hundred posts, but Yippee! on getting the first post.
back to your regularly scheduled bitching
Mmmm, new thread smell.
Obviously, I respect Nilly's choices in the matter. Most people aren't Nilly, though. And I don't think it's driven out of that kind of thoughtful spirituality, but social pressure and shame.
So what you're saying (leaving Nilly out of this) is, "I believe that someone I know and like can make this choice rationally and spiritually, but all those people I don't know are driven by shame and peer pressure"?
That gives very little credit to "most people." Honestly? It strikes me as the kind of thing right-wingers are talking about when they say liberals are intolerant. I'm sure that's not how you meant it, but it is what comes across.
Oooh, new thread.
I wanted to say how cute ChiKat and BF are, but I ran out of thread.
"Passion and Purity" sounds like the myth about disabled women and sex, kind of. If God made me too, Her sense of humor is stranger than mine.(We're supposed to be either too spiritually attuned or not sharp enough.) Jeez, go to pay bills, and I miss the sex talk. I don't believe I will ever be married...that would be a long haul.
I wanted to say they were cute, but somehow I feel that HOTT is a better description.
In early, by luck.
Gung Hay Fat Chow, everyone.
That gives very little credit to "most people."
Heh. You're right! I can't help it if most people suck.
No, I'm really responding to the historical Christian attitude about sex. Which is extremely fucked up, and has caused tremendous damage. That is the whole of my 'plaint.
Boy, you wait around and wait around for the new thread and then it's got a score of messages when it comes up.
I don't know that having had multiple partners has made me any better at the sex. I wasn't entirely paying attention with some of them, for one thing. But I'm definitely in the no-regrets-because-here-and-now-is-good corner.