Lorne: Once the word spreads you beat up an innocent old man, well, the truly terrible will think twice before going toe-to-toe with our Avenging Angel. Spike: Yes. The geriatric community will be soiling their nappies when they hear you're on the case. Bravo.

'The Cautionary Tale of Numero Cinco'


Natter 32 Flavors and Then Some  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


§ ita § - Feb 11, 2005 11:18:55 am PST #6390 of 10002
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I think I'll keep renting for a while...

Was it one of those calculators that takes into account possible tax benefits?

I am, for about the first time in my life, in a place where I can be fiscally and professionally proactive. I'm not burdened by the state of hell, or green card restrictions, or family anguish. It feels a bit late to learn, but I'm going to.

Sadly, I'm still in the LA housing market, so it's going to be a while before homeowning comes into the picture.


§ ita § - Feb 11, 2005 11:19:12 am PST #6391 of 10002
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Co-workers need to stop asking me questions in the middle of me hitting post ...


Gudanov - Feb 11, 2005 11:19:22 am PST #6392 of 10002
Coding and Sleeping

What really bugs me are people you send me work at like 7:00pm and then are surprised that I'm not still working. Hello?


Jesse - Feb 11, 2005 11:20:35 am PST #6393 of 10002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Oh, speaking of money. Question for freelancers or those who work with same: I have to bill a client for the first time. I found an invoice template, but it seems so formal. Should I use it, or just use my "letterhead" with a couple of sentences on it?


Anne W. - Feb 11, 2005 11:21:37 am PST #6394 of 10002
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.

I make $29K right now, but that comes with a footnote because I took a big paycut when I started this job. (Different industry, plus I had been fired, and any job beats no job.)

That's very similar to my situation. I'm making about half of what I made at the old job right now. It'll be interesting to see what I can scrounge up in St. Louis.


brenda m - Feb 11, 2005 11:22:08 am PST #6395 of 10002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Should I use it, or just use my "letterhead" with a couple of sentences on it?

I'd go with the latter.


Gudanov - Feb 11, 2005 11:22:28 am PST #6396 of 10002
Coding and Sleeping

It'll be interesting to see what I can scrounge up in St. Louis.

Hey, a fellow Missourian to be!


Anne W. - Feb 11, 2005 11:24:25 am PST #6397 of 10002
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.

Hey, a fellow Missourian to be!

Yup! I'll be back in MO in early April, it looks like.


Lyra Jane - Feb 11, 2005 11:26:09 am PST #6398 of 10002
Up with the sun

Are you sad to sell your house, Anne? It's so cute....


Susan W. - Feb 11, 2005 11:26:50 am PST #6399 of 10002
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

Currently, my freelancing is bringing in an around $500/month. Which sounds pathetic, but isn't that bad considering I've barely done any marketing at all. I'd love to quadruple that, but given that I'm committed to spending a lot of time working on my novels and that Annabel will be of an age to need a lot of time and attention for the foreseeable future, I'd settle for doubling it. That's my goal for 2005, in fact.

Being self-employed and working from home is weird in that I no longer have work and not-work compartments for my life. Which is not to say that I don't track my hours carefully when I'm working with a client who pays by the hour rather than by the project, nor that I make no distinction at all between work and recreation, but there's no longer this strong dividing line where one part of time is MINE ALL MINE and the rest is grudgingly traded to an employer in exchange for regular pay and health insurance.

The "grudging" was a key part of it for me--I really had a messed-up attitude toward work. I think it was a combo of a really horrible first experience in a full-time job, the fact neither of my parents especially enjoyed their work, and my natural hierarchy-hating personality expressing itself. Even when I liked the work, I always kind of resented my bosses and was uncomfortable supervising others.

So it's been a huge revelation for me that it's possible to work and enjoy it. I honestly thought I was inherently a lazy ambitionless person before I found work I enjoyed and the right way to motivate myself. Now, I almost understand workaholics, because it is awfully hard for me to step away from my writing to relax or be with Dylan and Annabel. Which is not to say that I manage time well or don't spend too much time online. But I'm getting better.