Giles: I jump out of the circle, jump back in, and, and, shake my gourd. Buffy: Hey, I think I know this ritual. The ancient shamans were next called upon to do the Hokey-Pokey and to turn themselves around.

'Dirty Girls'


Natter 32 Flavors and Then Some  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Allyson - Feb 11, 2005 10:20:07 am PST #6334 of 10002
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

That baby tossing story? False. The woman was trying to cover her own pregnancy:

I thought this morning that it was bullshit, but then I saw an interview with a little boy who said he saw it all happen. Then I figured I was a jerk.


Dana - Feb 11, 2005 10:20:29 am PST #6335 of 10002
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

That baby tossing story? False. The woman was trying to cover her own pregnancy:

What?!? Christ on a stick.


Betsy HP - Feb 11, 2005 10:20:47 am PST #6336 of 10002
If I only had a brain...

Actually, I'm profoundly relieved.


Anne W. - Feb 11, 2005 10:22:06 am PST #6337 of 10002
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.

Then what about the woman who stepped forward to say that she was the mother?


Betsy HP - Feb 11, 2005 10:22:07 am PST #6338 of 10002
If I only had a brain...

You know what the suckiest way to find out somebody's left the company is?

Sending mail, having it bounce, and finding out she isn't in the company directory any more.


brenda m - Feb 11, 2005 10:23:55 am PST #6339 of 10002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I don't see rent curiousity as an offensive thing, really, since people are always looking for places to live.

It's funny, though, because I don't at all mind saying ($859, FTR, about to go to $885), but it feels like something I shouldn't be saying out loud. Dunno why.

In one of the usual odd coincidences around here, I've spent the day doing the one thing you're never, ever supposed to do at work: researching job opportunities and salaries for my position.

But my VP asked me to! She wants the info to put in front of the Big Boss she meets with him to discuss performance and compensation. I've been specifically instructed to find data that shows I should get more money.


Gudanov - Feb 11, 2005 10:27:42 am PST #6340 of 10002
Coding and Sleeping

Why should I care about something as ridiculous as this? You know what I do for a living, some of you have seen the small box I live in and the car I drive, so, I mean, really?

I heart Allyson. Add 31k, 50 dollars, and about 78k and you've got me only it's mortgage instead of rent and the last figure would actually be about the same if not for the mortgage.


Noumenon - Feb 11, 2005 10:27:53 am PST #6341 of 10002
No other candidate is asking the hard questions, like "Did geophysicists assassinate Jim Henson?" or "Why is there hydrogen in America's water supply?" --defective yeti

I mean, I tell you people when I have earwax the size of a roach making me deaf. Why should I care about something as ridiculous as this?

Exactly.

Now that I've moved to the swing shift for an extra $1.05, I make $12.30 an hour. With overtime, that should put me over the median for the first time ever this year. I do think it's harder to reveal this information when you're doing well. When I was making $9.20, and I only knew the median income for all households ($43,300), I felt like anyone I told my income would suddenly feel better off.

My rent is only $400, but it's an efficiency, so that's not making anyone jealous either.


§ ita § - Feb 11, 2005 10:28:14 am PST #6342 of 10002
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I've listened to a co-worker here complain that the company never gives bonuses, and that raises are always below cost of living.

I'm more than happy to keep my mouth shut, because this rant was right after a large bonus and decent raise of my own. I'm not sure he was told that it was company policy, or it was the conclusion his ego forced him to -- either way I'm not collateral damage of his anger, and I'm good with that.

We basically have pay ranges, so some people will know about how much I make. But I can't work out how to find out the range/grade correlation.


Dana - Feb 11, 2005 10:28:39 am PST #6343 of 10002
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

I've spent the past hour twiddling with an Excel spreadsheet to try and get it to fit a specific size. (Please don't offer suggestions - I've tried them. Trust me.) This may be the very definition of tedium.