I don't think I've ever seen Kim Delaney before.
I don't think I have, either.
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I don't think I've ever seen Kim Delaney before.
I don't think I have, either.
Hmmm. The age 19 thing. I looked better than I do now, certainly, because I weighed a lot less. But I'm only 33. I choose to think my prime is in front of me. Because if 19 was my physical peak, that's so sad, because although I weighed less than I do now, I was by no means luscious.
I think I actually looked the best of my life about six months ago. So there's hope to be back there shortly.
I choose to think my prime is in front of me.
Phew, that's optimistic. Not that I don't think you can do it. But I was highly conscious when I was doing construction work at age 23 that I was peaking and there was no way I'd ever be gym bunny enough to be in that good shape again.
That is what I'm saying. 19 is Maya. Illusion.
The real deal comes later.
19 was -- well, 21 inch waist and the rack had just come in. But I think I looked better at many points since I turned 30 (including now), and have no interest, in the most wishful of universes, of looking like any of my teen selves again.
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Phew, that's optimistic.
My body looked better at 33 than at 19, and better now than I did at 33.
I think I probably felt my best at 28. I'm not sure who'd be able to say if that's when I looked my best.
I choose to think my prime is in front of me.
Phew, that's optimistic.
Well, it's my Princess Diana theory. She was, what, 19 when she married Charles? And she by no means peaked then. [NB: I don't just mean her body, but also her face, her "looks" in general.] At 19, she was still very baby-faced.
Some women, I think, grow into their looks, and Diana was one of them. And I suspect I am, too. Not just b/c I dislike the idea of everything from here on out being downhill, because -- ick, but mostly because I've always looked young as hell, and was really baby-faced at 19.
I think I'm just now growing into my looks, frankly.
I'm going to go with not believing in prime. My aim is to be happy and healthy with who and where I am, be it 12, 19, 25, 30, 42 or 113 (hey, I had a greatgrandmother who made it there.) Which, granted, I am not always. Like now. Juuust gotten used to one shape and found new nice stuff that fits and it changed. And I'm not happy with it. But I'll either find a way to be happy or do something about it.
Comfortable is important. Most important.