Lyra Jane, FWIW, my One Of Many Rightish Colleges recently instituted a policy of offering to fund any student's unpaid summer internship, because so many of the choicest ones are unpaid. They did this after I graduated, of course.
our culture is much more micro-topic hyper-sensitive (if that makes sense). For example, people swarming here and going apeshit when Joss posts and then a much larger portion of the population not giving a rat's ass who he even is.
Good point, and nice parallel. We're much more niche-y than we were even in the 50s.
But dating or marrying with an eye to profit = whoring in my book.
Agreed, but there seems to be a societal agreement that this is not the case. (E.G., anyone think Melania would be with Donald Trump if he didn't have a gazillion dollars? Yet we're still hearing about their "fairy-tale" wedding. Well, it is medieval, in a way.)
But no, it is not as pervasive in our culture as it once was - what with the tv and mass media constant entertainment at our finger tips. our culture is much more micro-topic hyper-sensitive (if that makes sense).
Exactly. Today's Scarlett Johanssen/Gwen Stefani/Fergie from the Roots = yesterday's Brooke Astor.
I will also add that I buy DVDs rather than rent, because I tend not to watch them in a timely manner. If I joined Netflix, I might watch one DVD per month, so for me, buying is cheaper.
Perhaps these were millionaires without enough money to be an entree, but I saw people try and whore (physically and/or business-wise) themselves out to the same group, and it never worked.
It may be different for different social circles. I see a good amount in DC. The money is secondary to the power. Nevertheless, it all comes back to the symbiotic relationship. Each side has to receive a benefit. It's entirely possible that those who tried to whore themselves out provided no incentive to be taken up on the offer.
I was thinking more along the lines of dating/marrying
See comment about whoring -- if there was anyone in the group I actually wanted to date or marry, sure I would have. But dating or marrying with an eye to profit = whoring in my book.
or putting your MBA to use.
Never had one of those, myself.
That's pretty much my point. You weren't
trying
to get in.
there seems to be a societal agreement that this is not the case
Really? I thought it was pretty skeptically apparent he was marrying eye candy and she was marrying money. And that was societally endorsed, but I've never heard anything about how in love they are.
Jessica, your rate card... Oh, nevermind.
Gus, please don't patronize me. If you don't want to argue, fine. But this is just rude.
[eta: This topic is very close to what I do for a living. The fact that online delivery costs more than tape/DVD is a constant source of frustration, but it is nonetheless a fact of the business.]
Today's Scarlett Johanssen/Gwen Stefani/Fergie from the Roots = yesterday's Brooke Astor.
I agree, in as much as how well they're known, and/or looked up to, but as far as powerandmoney- that's still class determined.
One Of Many Rightish Colleges recently instituted a policy of offering to fund any student's unpaid summer internship, because so many of the choicest ones are unpaid.
That's awesome. I don't want to sound like poor pitiful me from a state school, here, but my career path would be very different if I had understood, at 19 or 20, that unpaid internships = connections = future jobs. It honestly never occured to me.
