Plate tectonics are cool.

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Oh, man, I would LOVE to go to Macchu Picchu. Must tell parents to put that on my list of Exotic Family Vacations For When We Win The Lottery. (My uncle who apparently Has Money is taking his whole family to a dude ranch this summer. My parents and I were trying to decide what we would do.)

Oooooo! I just rewound my tape of the CBS Early Show and saw Deb's segment. Deb, you were stunning! Was Evangelista as exhausting to be around as it looked on TV?

Afraid I only recognized JZ out of the onlookers though. Did they not show Betsy?

I was there, a peacock-satin-clad sausage next to Hillary (in red).

The earlier talk reminded me of Le Tigre:

Yeah babe, I know I make about twice the money you make, and I'm never called a stupid whore or a flake. And, I don't structure my life around fear of murder dismemberment or rape, but I hardly see what that has to to with our relationship.

Mr. H is a huge teddy bear of a guy, but looks intimidating. He is not one of those who are hyper aware. One of the bars down in Deep Ellum where he used to work was kind of a taco bar that stayed open really late. I was up there visiting, and there really wasn't anyone there except for me and Mr. H. A guy came in, clearly not right, but that's not terribly odd for that part of town. He kept talking like he was really angry with some woman, and kept using "bitch" this and "whore" that. Mr. H didn't understand why I was so freaked out since he clearly wasn't talking to me.

And yeah, of me and my 5 best girlfriends (that's 6 of us) 2 have not been physically sexually molested or assaulted that I know of. I'm sure we've all had men and boys act inappropriately toward us. And with the exception of one of us, we were pretty much all raised middle class white bread suburban children in a mid size city. One girl who used to be in our circle, but is so screwed up it's hard to hang out with her anymore has been assaulted and or raped 3 times that I know of and that's not counting family sexual abuse (not counting because that seems to happen to male children about the same amount).

I just jabbed myself in the thumb hard enough to draw blood AND then broke my glasses.

I think the universe is telling me to crawl into bed with a book.

On being a girl:

I have the keys-in-the-fist, walk purposfully and fast, always be aware of your surroundings routine.

I've known great guys and lots of creeps. The really nice guys are treasures. The creeps come in all degrees.

I'm a large chested girl and got tired of having my chest spoken to by the time I was 22.

On natural disasters:

I drove on 3" of solid ice for 3 months during one winter in Madison, WI. Worth it. Lived through tornado warnings and actual tornados in Minnesota and Iowa. Worth it. Lived through the Loma-Prieta (sp?) earthquake in '89. I did not enjoy the paranoia I developed. I was always acutely aware of the highways overhead when the bus would be at a red light. the idea that" if it happened at this moment, I'd be toast" never really left me until I left San Francisco. Plus I was dirt poor there. Not worth it.

I've been lucky enough to avoid the worst forms of harassment--the worst I ever got was the standard teasing of early bloomers and occasional inappropriate stares/remarks from older boys/men.

I have a car routine--keys protruding from fist, brisk, purposeful walk, etc.--but I don't always use all of it. I save it for when it's really late or something about the setting seems off.

I have noticed that having a baby makes me feel more vulnerable and more dependent on the social contract, because I can't do the full-on self-protection routine with Annabel. In particular, there's no way to get in the car quickly, and when I'm strapping her squirmy little body into her car seat, I don't have any attention to spare for my surroundings. I'm almost never out alone with her late, but short as our winter days are, after dark is inevitable.

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Earwormed now

Me too, but I am also eyewormed with Lori's hand gestures, from one conversation I had with her in person about earthquakes.

Also, I am watching the Bachlorette. Somebody help me?