Book: Captain, you mind if I say grace? Mal: Only if you say it out loud.

'Serenity'


Natter 31 But Looks 29  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Jesse - Jan 04, 2005 4:47:08 am PST #2713 of 10002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Happy birthday, ita!!

Good luck, Tom!

I was all prepared to sleep in this morning, after staying up too late reading last night, and with no plans for the day...until my phone started ringing at 8 am because the guy was here to fix my bathroom ceiling. Can I get some notice? Damn. If I had a real job, I would have been especially pissed -- 8 am is prime getting-ready time!

Now I want a nap.


sarameg - Jan 04, 2005 4:55:08 am PST #2714 of 10002

This food service provider is much more...classy, I guess, than the usual (and previous) caf service, which leaned towards flavorless grey veggies from a can and oversalted soups. From huge cans. Generic caf food.

Now we have artisanal (what the hell does that mean, anyway) breads and gourmet mayos, exotic veggie fare (like...avocados! Ok, exotic for a caf.) And, of course, a 10-20% price increase.

The few times I've gotten food there I'd say the price increase is warranted-as the food is much better- but I'm too cheap to eat there regularly.


Amy - Jan 04, 2005 4:57:56 am PST #2715 of 10002
Because books.

Happy Birthday, ita!

Much green card ~ma for Tom!


Theodosia - Jan 04, 2005 5:04:22 am PST #2716 of 10002
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

Oh yeah, definitely with the greencard-ma to Tom. Sadly, the INS is actively hostile these days, not merely indifferent. Still, if you've jumped through all their elaborate hoops, they have to grudgingly hand it over.


Nora Deirdre - Jan 04, 2005 5:07:54 am PST #2717 of 10002
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Sadly, the INS is actively hostile these days, not merely indifferent. Still, if you've jumped through all their elaborate hoops, they have to grudgingly hand it over.

Well, according to the lawyers, he's been a resident since December 14, and everything else is "purely administrative". However, "administrative" is where it can all go terribly wrong, is my fear. Also, just because in a database somewhere, you're listed as a resident, it doesn't mean much without the tangible proof, when you're, say, trying to travel internationally.


Topic!Cindy - Jan 04, 2005 5:12:36 am PST #2718 of 10002
What is even happening?

Happy Birthday, ita!

Tom, I hope everything goes well, with your Green Card and governmental dealings.

I have to go to Social Security some time very soon, and provide proof of my marriage and name change. I never did get around to doing that ten years ago, and now the Registry of Motor vehicles is being a PITA about it. I have to renew my license soon. This is small potatoes, and yet I dread even thinking about it, never mind doing it. I can't imagine the fun Tom has in store, today.


§ ita § - Jan 04, 2005 5:13:29 am PST #2719 of 10002
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Thanks for the birthday wishes, folks!

Nora -- the gap between me being awarded my green card and acrually receiving it was huge, since I moved in the meanwhile, and the post office never forwarded the mail. It took two visits to the INS office to right things (never dream of arriving at the LA INS after 6am), but it was all painless once I got to a person.

It is slightly green. At certain angles.


Topic!Cindy - Jan 04, 2005 5:14:32 am PST #2720 of 10002
What is even happening?

It should be a real, Kelly green, or something. It's terribly disappointing to think it is only greenish.


Cashmere - Jan 04, 2005 5:15:29 am PST #2721 of 10002
Now tagless for your comfort.

Well, according to the lawyers, he's been a resident since December 14, and everything else is "purely administrative". However, "administrative" is where it can all go terribly wrong, is my fear. Also, just because in a database somewhere, you're listed as a resident, it doesn't mean much without the tangible proof, when you're, say, trying to travel internationally.

Want to talk about an immigration nightmare? My friend's husband is Iranian. He certainly got a warm welcome during his INS interviews.


Nora Deirdre - Jan 04, 2005 5:18:37 am PST #2722 of 10002
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

I think he's supposed to get his passport stamped today, with residential status, so that's something at least.

And, yikes, Cashmere. How are things going for him/them?

I'm happy that we didn't do a marriage application for his residency. That way, the government should stay out of our business. Well, relatively speaking. (his green card is work-sponsored, in the works before we even got together)