If the apocalypse comes, beep me.

Buffy ,'Selfless'


F2F 3: Who's Bringing the Guacamole?  

Plan what to do, what to wear (you can never go wrong with a corset), and get ready for the next BuffistaCon: San Francisco, May 19-21, 2006! Everything else, go here! Swag!


Fay - May 07, 2006 8:18:00 pm PDT #9393 of 10001
"Fuck Western ideologically-motivated gender identification!" Sulu gasped, and came.

Ok, maybe a little that all of my conversation might devolve to nothing but quotes and references, but is there a better place for that?

Word. After all, much of the time I'm only entertaining myself with said quotes and references. (Within the past week I've told a small child that hers is an evil laugh, and protested to someone else that nobody deserves mime.)


deborah grabien - May 07, 2006 10:19:22 pm PDT #9394 of 10001
It really doesn't matter. It's just an opinion. Don't worry about it. Not worth the hassle.

I didn't mean to imply that there was anything regarding planning and set-up that was contributing in any way toward nervousness. That was not my intention, and I apologize if it seemed I was saying anything resembling it. On the contrary, everything is perfectly geared toward promoting Buffista-style cocktail party socializing.

Good lord, no, I knew that no criticism assumed. That never even crossed my head. But I've been looking at the responses, and they're mostly about "need break from crowds to recharge", and that isn't at all how I understand the definition of shyness. So I did wonder if possibly a "there will be NO HASSLING SHY PEOPLE UNTIL THEY ARE READY TO DEAL" was in any way appropriate. Because I'm shyness-deficient to an obscene degree.


Toddson - May 08, 2006 3:30:43 am PDT #9395 of 10001
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

I went to my first F2F a little nervous, but I had the safety net of knowing if it got to be too much I could take a taxi home (such a luxury - I find the Buffistas and about eight months later they came to visit!). And for anyone who finds themselves being overwhelmed, they can go back to their room and post about it.

And remember - you already know the people here!


Steph L. - May 08, 2006 5:07:29 am PDT #9396 of 10001
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Steph, same dates go for you, too, if you're going to be around, although at this point I'm less sure whether or not I'll be making it over to Cincy. But if I do, it'll be somewhere in those dates.

Right on! Just let me know.


Laura - May 08, 2006 5:54:30 am PDT #9397 of 10001
Our wings are not tired.

Sqeee! So, I know I am allowed hugs and kisses with JZ. But am I permitted to pat her belly? Because I'm gonna want to. Sqeeeeee!


Theodosia - May 08, 2006 6:00:06 am PDT #9398 of 10001
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

Um, I made my plane reservations this morning -- bit the bullet and went through SFO for convenience's sake. (At least I hope that's fairly convenient.) So I'm definitely, irretrievably ON.


JZ - May 08, 2006 6:06:57 am PDT #9399 of 10001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

I believe that 9 out of 10 OB/GYNs specifically recommend Laura belly pats.


amyth - May 08, 2006 6:08:29 am PDT #9400 of 10001
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

ACK! I typed up a BIG LONG POST and got logged out. Drat. Let's try to recreate, and this time, I will CTRL +A and CTRL + C like a SMRT person.

Hello all! I just tried to catch up on 1600+ posts. *head officially spun*

I AM SO EXCITED TO SEE EVERYONE I CAN'T STAND IT. smonster and I both are so looking forward to this, and are so happy about it that it's hard to wrap our brains around it on a dreary Monday.

Sorry for my prolonged absence from the thread. My head can sometimes disappear up my proverbial arse. April was a month. It just was.

Is it too late to express a desire to attend the Winchester House on Saturday? I'll happily chip in for car rental $$.

Also, Deb, I know this is terribly late, but if it isn't too awfully late to RSVP, I'd like to attend BBQ post baseball game on Sunday if that's all right as well.

So, to sum up:

Plane ticket: bought!
Valium for plane trip: acquired!
Prom money: insent!
Baseball game: a go!
Supernatural torrents for Kate P. pimpage: slowly, slowly downloading

Still left to do:

Buy swag
Figure out what to wear to prom
Decide if it's worth it to try and see brother and nephew during Chicago layover
Other things I haven't even figured out yet!

Can't wait to see you all!


deborah grabien - May 08, 2006 6:13:59 am PDT #9401 of 10001
It really doesn't matter. It's just an opinion. Don't worry about it. Not worth the hassle.

JACQUELINE! I need to buy you lunch this week, and will insist on doing that thing, once I find out what days I'm doing what with HWA. I'm supposed to be signing this week, twice, and I only know about the big Borderlands event on Thursday night.

Amyth, excellent, and the BBQ will be delighted to have you, ma'am. Can you email me with your particulars, if you want to be listed? And Theo, you too, ma'am, please?


smonster - May 08, 2006 6:22:07 am PDT #9402 of 10001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Hi. As so often happens, I trail along behind amyth and say, "Me, too!"

I think I want to go to the Winchester House, though I'm a bit skeered, and I know I want to attend the BBQ.

Deb, we're flying together, so I'll forward you our info after lunch.

Juliana, my love, we're leaving Tuesday morning - if we need to find other accomodations for part of that time, let me know.