Wesley: We were fighting on opposite sides, but it was the same war. Fred: but you hated her…didn't you? Wesley: It's not always about holding hands.
'Shells'
The Quotable Buffy 2: Two Quotes Enter, One Quote Leaves.
Sometimes you just can't let those lines hang there in the air. Joss and his writers are too clever for their own good. Here's the place to let the rest of the world see why, and to vote on which one is the best.